Dashain: A Tapestry of Memories and Meaning from a Nepali PhD student living in Oz

Author: Sailendra Raj Giri

Dashain: A Tapestry of Memories and Meaning

Even 12,000 kilometres away from home, the sounds of my childhood linger in my ears—the jubilant cries of changa chait as kites soared into the sky, the rhythmic clatter of dice rolling inside a mug, and the ecstatic cha cha huiieee of children on the towering Linge Ping, a swing mounted on four sturdy bamboo poles. The divine sound of the shankha and ghanta, the aromatic scent of Gokul dhup (incense), marigolds in full bloom, and golden paddy fields swaying in the breeze—all seem to whisper the spirit of Vijaya Dashami, or Bada Dashain. And the Malashree Dhun, a melody inseparable from the festival itself, lingers in my heart, weaving nostalgia and joy into one vivid tapestry.

Dashain is more than a festival; it is an emotion, a bridge between past and present, a celebration of family, friendship, and community. It rejuvenates the spirit, strengthens bonds, and inspires one to be better, to grow, and to cherish every shared moment.

My Father Blessing me with Tika and Jamara during last years Dashain

The Triumph of Good Over Evil

The festival is rooted in the eternal story of courage and justice. Mahishasura, a demon empowered by the boon of invincibility, terrorized the cosmos, confident that no man, God, or animal could defeat him—except for women, whom he underestimated. In response, the trinity of Brahma, Vishnu, and Maheshwor pooled their divine energies to create Goddess Durga, a ten-armed warrior riding a lion, blazing with courage and strength.

For nine nights, Goddess Durga battled Mahishasura, adapting as the demon changed forms, until on the tenth day, she triumphed. This victory symbolizes not only the ultimate triumph of good over evil but also the power, wisdom, and strength of women—a lesson etched into every ritual and celebration of Dashain.

Rituals, Culture, and Joy

Dashain unfolds over fifteen days, beginning with Ghatasthapana, when barley seeds are sown in the Jamara Ghar, sacred vessels are placed, and mantras chanted to invite the goddess. The first nine days, also called Navaratri, are celebrated by worshiping the nine forms of Durga—Shaila Putri, symbol of strength and purity; Brahmacharini – representing wisdom and spiritual knowledge; Chandraghanta – bravery and grace; Kushmanda – the synonym of energy and vitality; Skandamata, embodying courage and righteousness; Katyayani – the one who offers blessings for harmony and peace in life; Kalaratri – the one who protects from evil and grants inner strength; Mahagauri – symbol of new beginnings; and Siddhidatri – the ultimate form of Goddess Durga, symbolizing the triumph of good over evil, in succession.

The Seventh, Eighth, Ninth, and Tenth Days are the most celebrated and special days. Devotees visit the various Shakti Piths—Goddess Durga temples—and pray for themselves and their family’s wellbeing, peace, strength, and courage. The 7th day is Phulpati, which is celebrated by offering flowers and various plants to Nava Durga in the Jamara Ghar. The 8th and 9th days – Mahastami and Mahanawani – are marked by offering sacrifices to Durga. During these days, people also worship their tools and vehicles. These are the days that include worshipping, family time, fun, and joy. In terms of food, Dashain is much more about meat; a variety of meat delicacies are prepared and enjoyed. On the 10th Day, called Vijaya Dashami, the eldest family member offers the Tika (rice grains mixed with red powder (Abir) and curd) and Jamara as blessings of Goddess Durga. After this, many people visit their elderly relatives to receive the Tika and Jamara as blessings. The festival is marked by unity, eternal bonds, and memories.

Jamara and Devi Puja

Unity in Diversity

Across Nepal, Dashain takes many forms. As Nepal is a multi-ethnic, multi-cultural, and multi-linguistic country, the way Dashain is celebrated might change slightly among different communities. The Newars celebrate with elaborate Devi Puja rituals, while Tharus and other indigenous communities weave in local music, dance, and games. Yet, despite these variations, Dashain unites the nation, fostering reconciliation, sharing, and social cohesion. It is a festival of connection, reminding us that community, kindness, and respect are at the heart of Nepali life.

Dashain Beyond Borders

Globalization and migration have transformed Dashain for the Nepali diaspora. Families abroad recreate the festival, adapting rituals to new environments. Some travel across continents to celebrate together; others use technology to share blessings and prasad virtually. Even far from home, the spirit of togetherness, devotion, and cultural identity remains unbroken, proving that Dashain is not confined to geography—it lives in hearts and traditions wherever Nepalis are.

A Call for Courage and Peace

In challenging times, such as this year, which saw a people’s uprising turning into violent protest and unrest, several lost their lives and property worth billions damaged. May this Dashain remind all Nepalis of Durga’s teachings: courage, wisdom, and the triumph of good over evil. May the Goddess Durga bestow her grace on every Nepali to strengthen relationships, uphold justice, and nurture peace. Through unity, respect, and resilience, we honour the festival’s deepest message: to live with strength, compassion, and integrity, ensuring that the light of Dashain shines even in the darkest times.

Happy Dashain 2080 Bikram Sambat!

Flying a Kite during Dashain